There is much in the world to disturb us. We can read and watch the news obsessively, can lose sleep focusing on the pain and sorrow. In fact, with a history of abuse, we may be drawn to distressing subjects.
But our souls, also, need rest. Rest and peace are necessary to our healing. The God who made us knows this. The Bible speaks of there being a time for all things (Eccl. 3: 1-8).
Our most profound rest is in Christ. He is our defense against the world.
“Come toMe, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.Take My yoke upon youand learn from Me, for I amgentle andlowly in heart,and you will find rest for your souls” (Matt. 11: 28).
In this political season, there is a great deal of emphasis on image. Candidates craft their images with care, choosing just the right setting, just the right music, just the right wording for political ads, campaign photos, and sound bites.
These carefully crafted images are not necessarily a true reflection of the candidate’s character – more like a carnival house of mirrors, with everything distorted.
What about the images abuse victims have of themselves? How accurate are those?
One crucial distinction between the images politicians design for themselves, and those abuse victims carry over from childhood, is that victims do not get to choose their images. In large part, those are crafted by the adults around them.
However, when the mirror is cracked, twisted, and deformed, so is the image reflected in it. Continue reading →
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