We abuse victims often rage at God for our circumstances. Given the pain we endured, that is only natural. Is it, however, appropriate? Is God responsible for fate and justice, by inference, for innocent suffering?
The Fates are a common feature in polytheism. They are often depicted as a group of mythological goddesses weaving the destiny of mortals on a loom. The ancient Greeks called them the Moirai. The Norse called them the Norns. They controlled the thread of life for every mortal from birth to death.
A belief in fate or blind chance can give rise to resignation, a stoic submission to events which largely removes free will from the equation. This is a way of coping with the gross injustice of abuse. It eases the pain, but reinforces a hopeless victim mentality.
What such a belief does not do is place responsibility where it truly belongs, i.e. on the predator. That can be appealing, since we need not confront the excruciating truth that we were not loved as we deserved. Continue reading